If this be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of your hand, O king. But if not, be it known to you, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the golden image that you have set up. Daniel 3:17-18 ESV
God, I know You CAN heal my husband…
God, I know You are ABLE to heal this marriage…
God, I know You are STRONG ENOUGH to protect my children from evil influences…
Have you prayed similar prayers?
My doubts never come because I think God isn’t ABLE to do something. My doubts come because I don’t think He WOULD for me. Does He love me? Does He love them more?
Here in our passage above, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were facing death.
They were looking it square in the eyes.
They had no options.
Worship of the True God was not up for discussion, and they knew He was able to “deliver” them. What were they thinking that word meant? Rescue them? Make the fire go out? Probably all kinds of things went through their heads, but I’m guessing NOTHING like what really happened. You can read the full chapter here.
As a result of their hearts being so full of devotion to Jehovah God, they knew even if they were not swept off in a story-book rescue, they would not worship the false gods. They knew they would follow God even into the fire.
Where was Daniel? He was their leader. He was the strong one in the bunch.
Have you ever felt that God took the “strong one” in your life- your husband? I hear widows say often – I lost my rock, I lost my leader, I lost my spiritual guide. But what did these three young men do when faced with the worst possible situation? They proclaimed their faith. Loud. And. Strong. They had been led well by Daniel. They knew the Truth. And they received something far greater than their friend’s spiritual guidance. They gained an encounter with God right in the middle of the furnace! God was the fourth man in the fire, bringing the king to see the Truth.
That hit me right between the eyes.
I was led by a man who knew God deeply. I had a spiritual guide. He was a strong influence in my life. Now it has been removed. Can I now proclaim my faith loud and strong? Am I able to stand up to adversity so others see God through my life? Do I know God enough to depend on Him during my trials?
So when the worst possible thing happens
and the “rug is pulled out from under” us,
can we STAND?
If our prayers for healing seem to go unanswered,
can we keep trusting?
When the fires of life seem to be lapping all around us,
can we bravely stand and say,
“Even if God doesn’t deliver us from the fires,
we will still follow”?
Has your strong person of influence been removed from your life? Are you being tested by the “fires” of life today? What or who are you trusting in?
From the passage in Daniel, we do NOT read that the three friends pulled the covers over their heads, crying out, “If only Daniel were here! He would know what to do!” Nope, they bravely stood strong on their convictions and knew exactly what they needed to do.
I need to follow the example of these young men– stand strong on what I know is true about God and follow Him. Sometimes that will lead me into “fires” only He can deliver me from in a grand way. And sometimes our delivery comes only after we have lived through the flames, scorched and stinking of smoke. My life circumstances do not alter the fact that God loves ME. He is the “fourth” person in the furnace with ME.
Lord Jesus, thank You for the influences of strong believers in our lives. Help us when we are tested and tried, to bravely stand strong on the truth of Scripture and not on our feelings. When doubts come our way, lead us back to Your Word even if we are not delivered in the way we expect or desire. Amen
I heard this wonderful song recently that really spoke to this subject. I hope you enjoy it. Even If by Mercy Me. The words are amazing. Another song from a few years ago is by Kutless, also called Even If. And if you like the idea of dancing in that fire, you will enjoy this song by Jordan Feliz.
Elizabeth Dyer lives in Oklahoma with her six children named after Bible characters, a large dog named after a grandfather, and a noisy cat named after a German race car driver! Elizabeth lost her husband in 2012 and is learning she only THOUGHT she knew what trusting God was–widowhood has taken that “faith walk” to a whole new level for her. Psalm 94:19 has become a special verse for her family – “Lord, when doubts fill my mind, when my heart is in turmoil, quiet me and give me renewed hope and cheer.”
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